Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man: Learning How to Make the Impossible Possible
The Gemini woman and Scorpio man are far from the most compatible couples. They clash in every way imaginable, and the wise thing to do would be to stay away from one another. But the heart wants what it wants. Let's dig into their dynamic to find the problems and where the solutions lie.
On the one hand, we have the mysterious, serious, and possessive Scorpio. On the other hand, we have the open, playful, and freedom-loving Gemini (May 21 - June 20). Whatever could go wrong?
The long-term prospects for this relationship aren't looking good, so if you're a Gemini woman interested in a Scorpio (October 23 - November 21) man or vice versa, you must decide now; will you choose to fight? Or flight? Because the more you flirt, the closer you get to dangerous territory.
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The Playful Meets the Serious
The Gemini woman and Scorpio man are different in their baseline natures. The twins have a fun-loving streak; love, freedom, and socializing. Meanwhile, Scorpio focuses on the serious parts of life, such as working, determination, and keeping a few close friends around him. While this is true, the Scorpio man's mysterious demeanor will ignite Gemini's natural curiosity. The Gemini's witty charm will put a spell on the unexpectant Scorpio, who is deeply drawn to her intelligence.
That being said, while this initial attraction will create a magnetic connection, this duo may become frustrated with one another in the long term. The quickly disinterested Gemini may even become bored of the Scorpio man's serious approach to living. That being said, her curiosity toward his endless mystery may keep her around as she constantly tries to figure out this man with who she has somehow fallen in love. He is also curious and may play detective in trying to figure out her mercurial nature that is so far removed from his reality.
Beyond this, they can balance each other out. The Scorpio man can provide the Gemini woman with stability. He can help her figure out what she wants instead of jumping from one thing to the next. The Gemini can show the Scorpio that variety can sometimes be the spice of life.
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The Jealousy Meets the Free-Spirited
Gemini is a social butterfly and needs to be able to do her own thing and meet numerous people to thrive in her life. That being said, the Scorpion is more of an introvert and naturally jealous. He can become possessive if she spends much time with others. Her flighty behavior will not help.
If the Scorpio acts on these feelings, it's a surefire way to chase his already indecisive-by-nature Gemini away.
Conflict & No Holding Back
While Gemini can be pretty moody, the Scorpio can remain calm and help her through these states. However, he has a rageful part of his personality, which, if it comes out, can lead him to bring his stinger out and utter some of the most cruel words.
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Simultaneously, Gemini's sharp mind and witty talents blossom in conflict. She can rip others to shreds with her words. A verbal spar between these two is a psychological blood bath and can leave them exhausted, resentful, and heartbroken.
The Passionate Meets the Intellectual
Scorpio is extremely intelligent in his own right, and Gemini does have high emotional intelligence. However, Scorpio tends to remain in the depths of his emotions, while Gemini prefers to remain in her head. This may cause an inability to connect in their everyday lives but also translate to the bedroom.
While Scorpio approaches sexual relations intensely, Gemini prefers a more detached and fun-loving experience. However, once again, these two can learn how to show each other new ways of approaching life.
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Overall, Scorpio and Gemini are opposite as he is more intense, but she is more playful and lighthearted. From the beginning, this may put them off. Yet, they will still be deeply drawn to each other, no matter how hard they try to resist.
The issue is not the attraction and love but rather the sustainability of such a naturally rocky relationship, which for the most part, will not work out. However, they must decide if their love for one another is worth the risk and hard work.
Read this article about a couple that could face similar tribulations and yet could find their perfect match in one another: Virgo Woman and Sagittarius Man: Exploring New Sides of Themselves Together.