42 Misery Loves Company Quotes: Rise above the Negativity around You

We all have friends who can not seem happy for us and constantly try to bring us down. As they say, misery loves company. Learn more about this saying by reading the 42 quotes below.

"Misery loves company" is a common saying that many individuals experiencing difficult times or not feeling too well enjoy it when others are on this same wavelength.

Now, while it is healthy to relate to somebody going through a difficult time, especially if it's similar to yours, there are lines we should not cross. These include constantly bombarding individuals with your issues, refusing to express pride when they succeed, and trying to bring them down when you see their emotional state or life improving.

Read these 42 quotes to learn more about the saying, "misery loves company."

Hussein Nishah’s quote: "Letting go of toxic people in your life is a big step in loving yourself. | Image: AmoDays

Toxic Relationships and Letting Them Go

"If you're giving love and not receiving it, you're not in the right relationship. If you're receiving it and not giving it, then you are taking advantage of the other person." — Patti Stanger

"The wrong person isn't breaking their back to make you happy. So, stop breaking your back for them." — Sonya Parker

"Misery: It doesn't discriminate. There are people both younger than you and older than you who would like to take you on that ride with them. Always remember: you have a choice. Not all journeys are meant to be taken together; It's not mean or selfish. It's called living and growth. You can and will outgrow certain situations and people. If it's not good for your growth, it's not good for you. Protect your peace." — Natalie Butler

"Letting go of toxic people in your life is a big step in loving yourself." — Hussein Nishah

"Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, and don't put up with people that are reckless with yours." — Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

Sonya Parker’s quote: "The wrong person isn't breaking their back to make you happy. So, stop breaking your back for them." | Image: AmoDays

"If you're giving love and not receiving it, you're not in the right relationship. If you're receiving it and not giving it, then you are taking advantage of the other person." — Patti Stanger

"1. Stay happy 2. Stay away from unhappy people 3. Why? 4. Because misery loves company…" — Katherine Janeway

"Avoid the friendship of those who constantly inquire and discuss the flaws of others." — Arabic Proverb

"Break free of toxic people and relationships; they erode your quality of life." — Ty Howard

"In any relationship where one person depends on another to be his or her 'parachute' — and the other accepts this role—both will fall to the ground." — Guy Finley

Patti Stanger’s quote: "If you're giving love and not receiving it, you're not in the right relationship. If you're receiving it and not giving it, then you are taking advantage of the other person." | Image: AmoDays

"Relationships based on obligation lack dignity." — Wayne Dyer

"A bad relationship is like standing on broken glass; if you stay, you will keep hurting…If you walk away, you will hurt, but eventually, you will heal." — Autumn Kohler

"Misery loves company, but happy is a better friend." — Ray Torres

"Like arsenic, toxic people will slowly kill you. They kill your positive spirit and play with your mind and emotions. The only cure is to let them go." — Dennisse Lisseth

Quotes about People Bringing Others Down

Sandi Lynn’s quote: "Because at some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life." | Image: AmoDays

"Misery loves company, but company does not reciprocate." — Addison Mizner

"Whenever I am faced with someone spreading negativity in my relationship, I remember the old saying, 'Misery loves company.' I am also reminded to be mindful of the company you keep. Sometimes you cannot see a hater until you are happy. It is then that they demonstrate their negativity." — Raheem DeVaughn

"It is far better to be alone than to be in bad company." — George Washington

"Be careful who you listen to…not every one that speaks into your life has your best interest at heart. Misery loves company. Beware of the frienemies because real friends with real advice are hard to come by!" — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

"Say no to misery, be happy, and enjoy every moment of your life; no one can take your happiness away unless you allow it to happen; misery loves company, and it's always looking for a new victim." — Kemmy Nola

Addison Mizner’s quote: "Misery loves company, but company does not reciprocate." | Image: AmoDays

"They say misery loves company, but so does mediocrity. Don't let the limiting beliefs of others limit what's possible for you." — Hal Elrod

"Nothing helps a bad mood like spreading it around." — Bill Watterson

"People inspire you, or they drain you—pick them wisely." — Hans F Hansen

"Misery loves company like jealousy and bitterness. Those same people love to see you fail but hate even more when you succeed." — Shannon W

More Misery Loves Company Quotes

"If misery loves company, misery has company enough." — Henry David Thoreau

Bill Watterson’s quote: "Nothing helps a bad mood like spreading it around." | Image: AmoDays

"Misery loves another [expletive] with a jukebox where his soul should be." — Steve Almond

"Misery loves company." — John Ray

"Animosity loves, but in a different sense. Meaning it loves in the same way that, as it is often said, misery loves company. And just as love seeks unity, so does hatred crave uniformity." ― Criss Jami

"There is no room for 'drama' in our lives. The term has become over-used and trivialized. However, the effects are very serious. "Drama" needlessly interrupts important matters. It's toxic and destroys everything and everyone it touches. That kind of misery loves company, but you can always decline the invitation." ― Carlos Wallace

Hans F Hansen’s quote: "People inspire you, or they drain you—pick them wisely." | Image: AmoDays

"You are too kind, and I am unused to it. For your own sake, do not stroke my misery. It knows not how to respond, but with a vicious bite." ― Anne Fortier, "The Lost Sisterhood"

"We are responsible for our own relationships, their success, their failures, the good times, the bad times. Take responsibility for creating the relationships that you desire." — Sam Owen

"Misery loves company, and madness calls it forth." —Yann Martel

"Misery loves company. For the sake of your sanity, avoid entertaining her." — Andrena Sawyer

"Misery doesn't only love company. It demands it. For this reason, don't walk away from negative people. run!" — Ernie J Zelinski

Shannon W’s quote: "Misery loves company like jealousy and bitterness. Those same people love to see you fail but hate even more when you succeed." | Image: AmoDays

"Misery loves company. This is a Hollywood soap opera, and I'm not going to be a star in another Bryant soap opera." — Karl Malone

"Misery loves company. There's a lot to that." — Harvey Pekar

"Misery no longer loves company. Nowadays, it insists on it." — Russell Baker

"Nothing helps a bad mood like spreading it around." — Bill Watterson

Henry David Thoreau’s quote: "If misery loves company, misery has company enough." | Image: AmoDays

"If misery loves company, then triumph demands an audience." — Brian Moore

"Misery loves company which is ironic because it rarely throws dinner parties." — Dov Davidoff

Brian Moore’s quote: "If misery loves company, then triumph demands an audience." | Image: AmoDays

It is important to distinguish between someone who wants to bring you down and someone who just genuinely needs help. It may not always be fun to be around someone in a dark space, but what is the point of any relationship if we can not be there for one another?

It is, after all, tough to go through hardship alone, and many of us may be experiencing this currently. To help you get more perspective on how to change this, read these 50 quotes about the journey from solitude to connection.